Good times in and around Highbourne Cay! Conch were plentiful and we were able to share with our friends! |
Dusk on Christmas Eve. |
Love "lights" season! We leave them on for a few hours each evening. |
Good times in and around Highbourne Cay! Conch were plentiful and we were able to share with our friends! |
Dusk on Christmas Eve. |
Love "lights" season! We leave them on for a few hours each evening. |
**We are SUPER excited to welcome our daughter, Katreina, to the writing staff of the family blog!!!**
Happy Holidays, everyone! As we are coming up on the New Year, I’ve started to reflect back on my time in France. If you don’t know by now, I’m currently taking an exchange year in France for my 10th grade year of high school. I’ve been here for about four months now, and every moment is one that I will cherish forever.
Orientation in Paris included the Eiffel Tower, the Louvre, and a cruise on the River Seine! |
WHERE DID I GET THE IDEA?
I came up with this idea around the age of 10, when my love for Harry Potter made me dream about living my life in England. As I got older, I told my parents about my desire to spend an exchange year in England, to which they blatantly said no. They explained to me that while it was amazing to have a desire to travel, they wouldn’t send me to another country for an entire year where I already knew the language (which, I mean, fair enough). So, with my want to do an exchange year still high, I started thinking of different countries I could go to. I almost immediately thought of France, as I had spent my 7th grade year learning French in school, and it was up there on the list of countries I wanted to got to. This was just at the beginning of COVID, and with lockdowns and basically sitting around doing nothing, I said “why not?” and started to intensely learn French.
Flash forward almost two years later, I’m speaking a new language in a new world, surrounded by some of the nicest people I’ve ever met. I live with an entirely different family, and I’m living an entirely different life. To some (or maybe to many), that would scare them to death—and there have been times where all I’ve wanted to do is go back to the U.S.—but I’m loving this journey. I’m learning to be independent, to make my own decisions and to find myself, all while learning a new language. It really is something you’re able to experience only once in a lifetime and everyday I’m grateful that things have worked out well for me.
TRANSPORTATION
I live in Tours, France. It’s a relatively big town, and I live close to its city center. There is a lot of public transportation, so I can go almost anywhere I’d like. It’s a very big change from my remote life on a boat, but I love being able to be very independent when I need to go somewhere. I don’t have to ask for a ride places, I can just look at the bus schedule and leave when I need.
L' Hôtel de Ville of Tours |
The tram...to school and around town. |
SCHOOL
My school schedule is amazing. Most days, I finish by 3 o’clock in the afternoon, which gives me most of the afternoon to do what I want. I have 10 classes (each with varying hours throughout the week): English, French, History & Geography, Math, Physics & Chemistry, Earth & Life Sciences, Technology Sciences, Social & Economical Sciences, Civics, and P.E. I would have 11, but early into the school year, I was removed from Spanish since I had never previously studied it. I have more than an hour and a half to eat lunch everyday (and Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday, I go back to my house to eat), so I never feel rushed like I did in the U.S. My grades are on average, and as time moves on here, I’m slowly getting better and better grades. School is definitely more professional than in the U.S. We refer to the teachers with vous (you but when referring to more than one person, someone you don’t know, or someone who is superior to you- in this case, we use vous because teachers are superior to students) and every time a teacher enters the classroom, we stand up and wait to be seated by the teacher. In the U.S., teachers are much more friendly, but here teachers are never ‘friends’ with the students. It’s definitely different, but it’s nice to experience this type of change. One big difference that even French kids don’t like about high school is the fact that there aren’t school sports, prom, or anything like that. Most of these things are solely in the U.S., so many kids here want to go to the States for one year just to experience it. All in all, though, I really like high school here, even if the classes are a little more challenging.
FREE TIME
After school, and during my free time, I’ve become much more social. I usually like to walk around town with friends or my host sister (who is the same age as me). Sometimes we’ll have a small coffee in town, grab a bite to eat, or browse clothing stores. I also really enjoy going to the movies and just in general talking to the people I know. Their lives contrast greatly to the normal that I know and it’s nice to hear about their experiences. I love hearing and talking about the differences between the States and France because I can learn all the things that I’m missing- and gaining- while I’m living here.
Croqué Monsieur with friends...dining out around town is a favorite activity. |
HOST FAMILY
Most of all, I am very lucky to have a kind and loving host family. In my host family, I have a mom and dad and two sisters—one my age, and one who is six years old. I know several other exchange students who haven’t had as much luck as I have and to have a really great connection with my host family is great. They have been truly nice to me (even buying me Christmas gifts when I couldn’t go back to the Bahamas to spend Christmas with my family) and they make sure that I don’t miss out on any French experiences. They help me with my French when I can’t pronounce a certain word (for the moment it’s the special r sound in horrible), and now I help them with their English. I am truly content to be placed with this family; I would never think about changing families.
Ma famille. Love learning about France with my sisters, Margaux and Romy! |
IS IT WORTH IT?
While this is only a sliver of what my life is like in France, I can promise that every second is amazing. There have definitely been tears and homesickness (especially during the holidays) but every day I’m learning how to cope and appreciate living in the moment. I don’t want to go back to the U.S. just yet…I still have so much to experience and so much to learn. And while my French has definitely improved, I don’t think I’m quite ready to call myself bilingual. All of this is a learning experience, so if you ever have the opportunity to do something like it, I would 100% say GO FOR IT!!
~Katreina, 2nd Mate and young nomad extraordinaire
Getting the engine into our dinghy was easy with a little help! |
The old and the new in their new homes. We need some stickers! |
Bella Vita passing alongside for the smooth exchange. |
Op test...SAT! Woo hoo! Let the break-in period begin! |
Clockwise from UL: the cut into Great Harbour Cay; Chill & Grill; delicious coconut bread; the welcome sign over the cut; Lehe Paine all snug in a slip! |
Easily the craziest meet-up yet! Kurt and I hail from the same land-locked town in Illinois and even crossed paths in our younger days. Great to see him and his wife, Shanty, and their beautiful new boat, S/V Makae! |
We loved exploring Shark Creek and Hawksnest Cay with the crews of Pleiades and Nō Ka 'Oi! |
I went a little coco-nuts! We collected 6 or 7 of these yummy guys and froze some of the meat for snacks along the way. The fresh coconut water was such a treat! |
Ruins, beaches, beach clean-ups, swimming, game nights with friends...plenty to do even when the wind is up. |
We departed at sunset after a wonderful visit! (Photo credit: Kurt on S/V Makae) |
The title says it all! In my old life, a tough day at work was always balanced by getting to work through the challenges with some pretty awesome people. Now that we're traveling all the time I can say that it still holds true--the best memories, whether they be made on pristine beaches, in a hot engine compartment, or in a crazy storm, are usually all great memories because of the people. But then there's the other travel joy...THE FOOD! And when those two glorious things come together, that's when the real magic happens.
And that's what we have here in Great Harbour Cay. Two years ago we had our first conch salad of our cruising lives (and the Skipper's first ever) at Brown's Garden. Ronnie Brown served up his specialty with a smile and a good dose of stories about the island. We visited him a few times that week, even celebrating our 15th anniversary with his conch salads served in plastic bowls with plastic spoons and cold Kalik beers. That conch salad became the one we compared all others to! We were back again last year, in the midst of COVID, and while things were definitely slower on the island, Ronnie was still in good spirits and we chatted quite a bit over Kaliks. This year, things still aren't quite back to how they were the first year, new family members are working with him, but his spirit at that great conch salad are still there!
Conch salad (background), scorch conch (foreground), and a cold Kalik! |
Based on a conversation we had last year, we had a little gift for Ronnie from the states...a culinary treat that is a little hard to come by on the island. Last night the three of us headed to an early dinner at Brown's so we could deliver and Ronnie was so surprised! He has brought us so many smiles over the years and it was great to give him a little joy in return. Hugs and shots were shared, and when it was time to get dinner going, Ronnie took Trent down to the water with him to learn more about conch. We gather and clean our own conch onboard, but here Trent was getting to learn from a real master! Ronnie told him all about how to get the conch out and let him do one, taught him all about the conch anatomy, showed him how to clean it, then gave us a peek at his salad technique. And we ate and chatted and smiled and left with full bellies and hearts.
Cheers to good friends! |
Ronnie's "office" is stunning! And he and Trent had way too much fun cleaning those conch! |
Ronnie sporting a big smile while making that conch salad...you can't help but smile back! |
I love learning about a culture through its food. Eat the exotic stuff, hear the stories, and appreciate the work that went into the food!
~Jo, 1st Mate
Ok, before anyone gets all upset over this, WE ARE FLORIDA RESIDENTS. The simple truth is that as we've cruised between Maine and the Bahamas, Florida is the only place we have ever been advised to lock our dinghy. Hence why we call this our "Florida Painter." Once we hit some spots in the Caribbean this setup will see more use, but for now, that's what we call it! It's not at every dock (and it's not just docks in Florida!), but reviews of various dinghy docks will let you know which ones are susceptible to theft.
Dinghy locks can get a little controversial in the cruising community for one simple reason--do it wrong and you screw over other boaters! Yep, it's all about courtesy. Crazy, right?
In general, just tying up a dinghy should be simple. You tie off with a cleat hitch with a sufficiently long painter so that other boaters can maneuver your dinghy tie up at a crowded dock. You don't need 12 wraps on the cleat to be secure--just a simple hitch does the job and allows another boat to cleat off on top of you if needed. And with the long painter (one boat length after you're tied off) other boats can scoot around you and land their crew. When you get back, you nudge theirs out of the way on their long painter and pull your dinghy in to load up. Easy! Or at least easy as long as everyone does it. It's generally poor form to tie up your dinghy fore-and-aft as it takes up two cleats and makes it so that no one can maneuver to the dock for the entire length of your dinghy. Please, just don't do it.
But some places are prone to theft and locks are recommended. Even if everyone is only tied up with one line, locks can piss people off if they are super short (or worse, strung through the dinghy handles and locked fore-and-aft). A 3' cable lock means your dinghy can only move a little over a foot from the cleat--it's not maneuverable at all and makes it hard for others to land on a crowded dock. I've seen the super short cables locked to a dock and the long painter floating in the water next to it. The long painter doesn't do any good there--it literally does nothing!
So what do we do? We use an obnoxiously long steel cable and a U-lock. We have a 30' long, 10mm (I think...maybe 12mm) steel cable. It is looped around our dinghy engine lock, routed over the deck, and led out to the dock. With that kind of length and our 10' dinghy, we can lock up so that our "painter" is 10-20' long! On some cleats we feed the cable through the cleat and back into the dinghy. On others we just slip the U-lock through the center hole of the cleat and lock the cable on. Either way, the cleat is still totally available for someone else to tie off a painter and with all of that cable we can adjust the length of our "painter" to fit the crowding at the dock. Our cable and lock are so beefy that we don't even bother with the rope painter.
The cable is looped around our outboard lock and run along the deck to the bow under the fuel tank. |
The cable is fed through a sturdy cleat and the lock is kept in the dinghy, leaving it 10'+ away from the dock. |
This beefy bike lock was left over from our land days and works well! |
We've seen skinnier cables, stainless steel chain, and shorter (but not super short) cables just run from the bow--all are options. Just be considerate other boaters and you're good to go!
Once final note...raising your dinghy engine at a crowded dinghy dock is also not a good move. This puts your prop in danger of slicing open someone else's tubes. At really shallow docks where there is plenty of room and everyone can be on about the same length of painter without turning all around and bumping, it can work. But in general, just try to avoid it at docks. Engine up on the beach, engine down at the dock!
After an overnight sail/motorsail/motor from Lake Worth, FL, we have arrived at Great Harbour Cay in the Berry Islands! We checked in here two years ago this week and it's great to be back again for our annual stop. We are here for a week (or more depending on weather!) and look forward to exploring some of our favorite spots! And super excited to be sharing this stop with old and new cruising friends!
Clockwise from upper left: sunrise departure; great conditions crossing the Gulf Stream; sunset; sunrise as we approached the Berry Islands. |
The Skipper raising the "Q" flag in Bahamian waters. |
All tied up at Great Harbour Cay Marina! |
Trent & I were pretty excited to see the bottom! |
A stupid amount of food and booze; we got shot up; momma got mail! |
Heading to the laundry that is next to Dani Market (an awesome Latin grocer!); Trent stylin' for a walk around Peanut Island with another cruising family. |
Birthdays are so much better with friends! We celebrated Trent and Rob with a chocolate-peanut butter swirl cake and "COVID-safe" candle ops; Trent got his new Xbox! |
We had some epic sunsets at this anchorage. |
Another successful feast from the galley! |
Finally able to sail quite a bit and even got Swab in on some pretty laid-back watchstanding. |
LOVE that her host family did a French-American Thanksgiving feast! We are truly so thankful for this amazing family! |
This is the best we can do for a family photo this year! |
I fell in love with Cumberland Island National Seashore on our first visit there last December and with this visit, my love is reaffirmed! This time we lingered for days, taking advantage of some pretty good protection from NE winds and the many hiking trails on the island. We tried some of the less-popular trails, hiking over 9 miles on our first day there! We also revisited our old favorites...Dungeness Ruins, the washed up buoy on the beach, the horses! I even got to catch up with a boat mom I met in the Bahamas and meet a few others as we braved 20+ knot winds and a sporty dinghy ride to head ashore for some exercise one morning. We enjoyed our time in nature, on solid ground, with the sweet horses and a ton of cute armadillos! I even braved the cold camp showers just for fun!
A fabulous day of hiking north along the beach to Stafford Camp, then back down the Parallel Trail to the docks (over 9 miles!). |
Revisited Dungeness Ruins, the marsh boardwalks, the washed up buoy on the beach, and of course, horses! |
I love the adventurous group of boat mamas I reconnected with and met here! We had a wet dinghy ride, but enjoyed a nice run/walk, complete with fresh grapefruit and lots of horses! |
We saw so many armadillos on this visit! We decided to do one last hike around the ruins and the Nightingale Trail. |
~Jo, 1st Mate
We had a nice "hop" down the coast of the Carolinas!
After departing New Bern midday (post laundry, grocery delivery, and UPS delivery) we spent a peaceful night at the north end of Adam's Creek with a few other boats in sight. The next day we had a decision to make--stay in Beaufort or Cape Lookout for the next frontal passage, or get fuel and head offshore. We just didn't feel like doing the ICW so it wasn't really a choice. We went with a hybrid plan--get fuel, head out the inlet, assess conditions, and either head for Cape Lookout or press on to Masonboro Inlet (Wrightsville Beach) for a nighttime arrival. Fueling at Town Creek Marina was a breeze and we headed out! I've been dying to go to Cape Lookout, but conditions were pretty good so we pointed south. We ended up having a fairly uneventful trip, coming into Masonboro Inlet around 2300. Some of the channel markers aren't lit, but with a well-pointed flashlight I was able to keep track of them. The first anchorage off the inlet was busy so we decided to head up a little more and see what we could find. It's harder to judge distances between boats and night and if we could avoid making a neighbor nervous, we would! We actually found the "Wrightsville 1A" anchorage to be quite open and have great protection for the forecast winds...hook was down and set by 2340. In the morning we could see that we had a fantastic spot and decided to stay put right there! I did a Veteran's Day zoom with an elementary class in my hometown, Frank fixed the outboard throttle, and we headed into town for lunch and a walk on the beach.
Sunset at sea, a little Veteran's Day fun, a fixed throttle, and LUNCH (real food was involved, I promise, but this IPA was really good, too!). |
Friday we decided to ride the midday ebb out to sea and head for Charleston. It would be an overnight (I love overnights!) and seas weren't forecast to be bad. In fact, we ended up motoring into a light wind most of the time. We banged into the seas a little, but really nothing terrible. And we were able to enter Charleston well ahead of sunset Saturday to anchor off the Battery. That anchorage can get wakes from passing boats, but that usually chills out at sunset and we had a peaceful night. With our one marine head acting up and a need to take on fuel we decided to take grab a slip at Safe Harbor Charleston City Marina for a night so we could knock all of it out and maybe even enjoy the city we were married in! We had a sweet spot on the mega dock and got to work cleaning the boat and dealing with the crappy work on the head. Several expletives and lots of bleach later...the head was put back together and we stretched our legs with a walk to town. We had an early dinner and caught the marina shuttle back so that I could knock out a load of laundry before we left. Trent and I also got to work in the galley to prep food for another overnight and he made a really good pesto-artichoke orzo dish! In the morning we topped off water, sent trash ashore, grabbed a last shower, I made a quiche, and we were off the dock with an hour of ebb to whisk us out to sea!
LOVE an overnight offshore run! We had a pretty sweet ride past Frying Pan Shoals and into Charleston. (And I'm sporting the Citadel beanie like a good Citadel bride.) |
Mega Dock life is nice! Well, except for the head repair. Still had time to enjoy the city a little and prep for another hop. |
We did have to motor, but we managed to motor-sail and ended up having a really wonderful night at sea. I had to weave through anchored cargo ships off Savannah on my watch, but otherwise there wasn't any excitement. Just the moon, stars, dolphins...and a busted steaming light (again!). I hate festoon-style bulbs. I'm sure when I go up the mast that I will find that the bulb is fine but just slightly off its mount. Grrrr... Anyway, awesome trip and we rode a little flood current into St. Mary's Inlet--we were on the Georgia/Florida state line!
I really love having Trent on watch with me! And after weaving through anchored ships I had a glorious night of stargazing. |
We had options at this inlet…north to Cumberland Island National Seashore or south to Fernandina Beach, FL. We actually really like both but decided to start over in Georgia! And just like that the hook was down for a lazy afternoon in a beautiful, peaceful anchorage. Aaaaahhhhh….
Back at Cumberland Island...one of my happy places. |
~Jo, 1st Mate
Having booked a week at the New Bern Grand Marina & Yacht Club for the crazy reasonable rate of $4.50/foot/week (plus electricity) we had plenty of time to explore, even with some crappy weather in the forecast! The dock we were on led right onto one of the main streets in old downtown New Bern which made it super easy to pop out for a walk in the morning.
The sunset views from our dock were pretty nice! |
The town has a rich history as one of North Carolina's colonial capitals (and the last one before the Revolutionary War) and celebrates that history with placards throughout town and via the North Carolina History Center at Tryon Palace. We spent an afternoon touring the replica palace, some of the original buildings, and the amazing gardens. We also explored some of the darker history of New Bern with a Ghost Tour! I know, I know...touristy...but it's also a fun way to learn some actual history among the ghost tales. It was super windy and a little rainy the night we went, but it was still fun! And we even visited the birthplace of Pepsi-Cola, “the taste born in the Carolinas.”
Tryon Palace and Gardens |
Kind of neat to see where a global icon started! |
I also stumbled across an event at the local Civic Theater while I was looking for things to do--Rock of Ages was opening the weekend we were in town! The Skipper and I went to opening night and had the most fun we've had on a Friday night in a long time! The venue was old and a little rough around the edges which worked perfectly for Rock of Ages, the music was awesome, and the cast was AMAZING! They can really sing and perform! We loved that the male lead was a local junior high science teacher...I love that community theater is neighbors coming together to put on a show. SO much fun!
We added to the fun factor by stopping at Beary the Hatchet for a night of axe throwing! It was actually "Broke Axe Monday" so an hour of throwing was only $15 each. There was great music, a really good beer lineup, and axes! What's not to love?
This town also hits some good food notes, and the portions are "13-year old boy approved." We went to Baker's Kitchen for their amazing cinnamon rolls and southern fare (a few times!), Captain Ratty's for a teenager-satisfying breakfast buffet, MJ's Raw Bar & Grille for super fresh seafood (a few times!), the Cow Cafe for a casual lunch stop, Bella's Cafe for morning coffee, and the Chelsea for a slightly more upscale southern evening. Yeah, I didn't cook a ton, and there are other places that we would like to hit on a return trip. There was also a really good farmer's market only a block from the marina on Saturday where we got some beautiful vegetables (and pork cracklins!).
I added lots of reviews to Google Maps while we were here! The Crabby Bloody Mary at MJ's was awesome; the farmer's market was lovely; and the cinnamon rolls at Baker's were HUGE and yummy! |
This made a good "cruiser stop" for me for quite a few reasons. The marina was reasonably priced (actually, cheap!), had good wifi, had cable (WOO HOO, FOOTBALL!!!), everyone on our dock was really nice, staff was super helpful, bathrooms were clean, it was easy to get mail shipped here (we got some parts!), laundry machines worked (and took credit cards), they had pump-out options, and they had recycling. Only thing missing was fuel (but another marina had it). I was also able to get a grocery run via Instacart from Publix right to the head of our dock. The fact that the town was super walkable won me over instantly, but the fact that there were great businesses within that walkable area was really nice. There is a health food grocer just a few blocks from the marina that even had a live aboard discount! And of course, the cultural offerings were great, too. Don't be surprised if we go "off the path" to stop by New Bern again sometime in the future!
~ Jo, 1st Mate